January 24, 2017

Wedding | Advice from a photographer

It’s that time again. Time for me to give you my unsolicited advice on selecting a wedding photographer. Here we go… hold tight. Like the style the photographer shoots/edits in. Duh. Except not really… please never send a photographer a Pinterest board of “what you like” because if you don’t like what’s already on THEIR website, don’t hire them. Period.  It’s incredibly insulting for someone to be like, “I like this better than what you do…” #eyeroll  You’d loose your lunch if you knew how often this happens. Stopit.  On the same note… if you’re getting married at night, under the stars, refuse a first look (which is OK!), think twice about hiring a photographer that shows nothing but daylight, afternoon images on their site. I’m not saying they cannot handle what you want, but they probably don’t prefer that setting. If photography is important to you… Don’t let you cousin with a nice camera shoot your wedding photos. I completely understand that photography is not always a priority to couples, and that is OK. Maybe great food or a great band tops your list of important things, perfectly fine…. but for the love of all things sacred…. hire a professional for the important stuff (ceremony and formal portraits). Just an hour or two of coverage will be pretty inexpensive, make room in the budget for it! Inspect the products offered. I know, I know… getting the digital files is king these days, but hear me out. Get SOMETHING printed professionally…. because this is what’s going to happen…. you will get your digital download code or thumb drive in the mail… you’ll scroll through the images, ohhhing and ahhhing, reminiscing and then that’s it. You might post a few to Facebook or Instagram. What on earth will you look at when you lost the downloads, your computer crashes or that thumb drive is now obsolete? I’m not saying you need to drop 5k on prints or albums, but get something nice, that’s also color correct. If you take that flash drive to Walgreens, don’t expect anything but disappointment. Your skin might look orange, the church might look green… you get the point. They don’t operate with color correct machinery, and don’t really care because their game is laundry soap and prescription drugs. Do you trust your pharmacist to produce beautiful images? Nope. Respect the photographers talent and time. If a $6000 photographer is over budget, don’t lead them on with meetings and emails. However, if you have a less popular date or are getting married within a few weeks of inquiring, you may have a bargaining tool in your favor. January, February and December are the least popular here in NC, so you might get a break there…. as well if you are having a super short engagement. I happily entertain all budgets, but be realistic about what you might get for the budget. You won’t be getting all day coverage and a quality album for $1000.OK…. I’ve said my peace on what I think 🙂
June 8, 2016

Dresses | Intimate Wedding Series

Happy first Tuesday of June! Can you believe it’s JUNE?! Seems like we just celebrated Christmas… I digress. Anyway… I’m back with another intimate wedding post, and as you may have guessed… we’re talking dresses! Every big bridal magazine is going to roll their eyes at this post… because their $2,000+ dresses would surely disapprove of a $50 off-the-wrack frock to tie the knot. Let’s face it, if you are looking to cut costs on your wedding day, a $10,000 Vera Wang dress isn’t even on your radar… but maybe those $99 David’s Bridal specials are… and I’m here to share some other (likely better!) options. If you’re dying for the “bridal look” start local. Check out your local bridal boutiques. Every single boutique has a back corner filled with sample gowns they are looking to offload at a discount. They’re last season, they may need to be cleaned, beading may need mending and they likely won’t fit like a custom ordered gown… but they will be bridal and have a designer label. A few months ago I was in J Majors looking for a dress to photograph and wandered through their sample wrack…. lots of pretty options, and I was stunned at the deeply discounted rates they were being sold! Again, if you’re dying for a true bridal gown, check oncewed.com and preownedweddingdresses.com. When Jeremy and I got engaged, the first thing I did was buy a stack of bridal magazines and hunt for my dream dress on the glossy pages. An Amsale dress struck me… it was the one. I’d not stepped foot inside a bridal boutique, but I knew this.was.it! I happened to find it on preownedweddingdresses.com in my size and about 1/3 of it’s retail price. I think that dress retailed for $3000 and I paid about $1200. It arrived and was even the perfect length! Seriously, no alterations were needed! About a month later I had a revelation that even though I’d spent 1/3 of retail, I’d still shelled out over a grand for a dress I’d wear once… I couldn’t stomach it. I put it back up for sale and actually profited $300 on that gown! Side note: I ended up wearing my mom’s wedding dress 🙂  Also, check out local consignment/resale shops in your area, when I worked at the Junior League Wearhouse we got lots of donated gowns (even from bridal shops!) Look at bridesmaids dresses! Nearly every single bridesmaid gown comes in at least ivory, if not white too. This will still give you a little taste of that bridal boutique experience as well… you can make an appointment, play dress-up and spend a fraction of what the white gowns across the store cost.**Make sure you check out my Intimate Weddings pins for lots of dress options! Shop the mall! Probably the simplest solution… go to the mall! You can find dozens of white dresses just walking into the shops there. Places like Cache, White House Black Market, JCrew (online) and many others will offer you options. Tagging on #4, shop online! Lots of mainstream retailers are carrying bridal gowns online… check out urbanoutfitters.com modcloth.com and zara.com too! Rent. After-all you may only wear it once. Renttherunway.com has a great selection of beautiful gowns. Go non-traditional. Picking a color other than white or ivory will open thousands of options for you… blush is wildly popular right now… I’ve also seen some killer colored gowns floating around… don’t be afraid to do something different!!   The photo at the top is a dress I picked up on eBay for about $40… it was the perfect unique dress to shoot Michelle wearing at Richie Hill. It even caught the eye of the Trendy Bride blog and was featured over there! Be sure to check out more Intimate Wedding posts over HERE! And… if you’re looking to celebrate small (and budget friendly), make sure you check out my special rates on that page!
January 26, 2016

Bridal | Black & White

Sometimes in the dead of winter, in the dead of a wedding photographer’s season… you just need to get out and play! The lovely Katelyn modeled this KILLER Tory Burch gown I found (which is for sale if anyone’s interested!), Audry of Paper, Scissors, Beauty did Katelyn’s hair and makeup (yow!!! so pretty!!!) and Jenkins Rose provided the perfect, modern paper goods! These gals were wonderful to work with, and I’d highly recommend them for your day. The flowers cost me about $30 at Fresh Market and I tied them together with a scrap of black and white fabric from Ikea.
December 29, 2015

2015 Review!

2015 has lead us all over the map… Jamaica, Charleston, Wilmington, RDU, Bald Head Island, Highlands and the Bahamas…. cheers to an awesome year behind and a great year ahead!       Image by Catherine Marciniak     *Images of Lonesome Valley were shot for Michelle Lyerly
January 24, 2017

Wedding | Advice from a photographer

It’s that time again. Time for me to give you my unsolicited advice on selecting a wedding photographer. Here we go… hold tight. Like the style the photographer shoots/edits in. Duh. Except not really… please never send a photographer a Pinterest board of “what you like” because if you don’t like what’s already on THEIR website, don’t hire them. Period.  It’s incredibly insulting for someone to be like, “I like this better than what you do…” #eyeroll  You’d loose your lunch if you knew how often this happens. Stopit.  On the same note… if you’re getting married at night, under the stars, refuse a first look (which is OK!), think twice about hiring a photographer that shows nothing but daylight, afternoon images on their site. I’m not saying they cannot handle what you want, but they probably don’t prefer that setting. If photography is important to you… Don’t let you cousin with a nice camera shoot your wedding photos. I completely understand that photography is not always a priority to couples, and that is OK. Maybe great food or a great band tops your list of important things, perfectly fine…. but for the love of all things sacred…. hire a professional for the important stuff (ceremony and formal portraits). Just an hour or two of coverage will be pretty inexpensive, make room in the budget for it! Inspect the products offered. I know, I know… getting the digital files is king these days, but hear me out. Get SOMETHING printed professionally…. because this is what’s going to happen…. you will get your digital download code or thumb drive in the mail… you’ll scroll through the images, ohhhing and ahhhing, reminiscing and then that’s it. You might post a few to Facebook or Instagram. What on earth will you look at when you lost the downloads, your computer crashes or that thumb drive is now obsolete? I’m not saying you need to drop 5k on prints or albums, but get something nice, that’s also color correct. If you take that flash drive to Walgreens, don’t expect anything but disappointment. Your skin might look orange, the church might look green… you get the point. They don’t operate with color correct machinery, and don’t really care because their game is laundry soap and prescription drugs. Do you trust your pharmacist to produce beautiful images? Nope. Respect the photographers talent and time. If a $6000 photographer is over budget, don’t lead them on with meetings and emails. However, if you have a less popular date or are getting married within a few weeks of inquiring, you may have a bargaining tool in your favor. January, February and December are the least popular here in NC, so you might get a break there…. as well if you are having a super short engagement. I happily entertain all budgets, but be realistic about what you might get for the budget. You won’t be getting all day coverage and a quality album for $1000.OK…. I’ve said my peace on what I think 🙂
June 8, 2016

Dresses | Intimate Wedding Series

Happy first Tuesday of June! Can you believe it’s JUNE?! Seems like we just celebrated Christmas… I digress. Anyway… I’m back with another intimate wedding post, and as you may have guessed… we’re talking dresses! Every big bridal magazine is going to roll their eyes at this post… because their $2,000+ dresses would surely disapprove of a $50 off-the-wrack frock to tie the knot. Let’s face it, if you are looking to cut costs on your wedding day, a $10,000 Vera Wang dress isn’t even on your radar… but maybe those $99 David’s Bridal specials are… and I’m here to share some other (likely better!) options. If you’re dying for the “bridal look” start local. Check out your local bridal boutiques. Every single boutique has a back corner filled with sample gowns they are looking to offload at a discount. They’re last season, they may need to be cleaned, beading may need mending and they likely won’t fit like a custom ordered gown… but they will be bridal and have a designer label. A few months ago I was in J Majors looking for a dress to photograph and wandered through their sample wrack…. lots of pretty options, and I was stunned at the deeply discounted rates they were being sold! Again, if you’re dying for a true bridal gown, check oncewed.com and preownedweddingdresses.com. When Jeremy and I got engaged, the first thing I did was buy a stack of bridal magazines and hunt for my dream dress on the glossy pages. An Amsale dress struck me… it was the one. I’d not stepped foot inside a bridal boutique, but I knew this.was.it! I happened to find it on preownedweddingdresses.com in my size and about 1/3 of it’s retail price. I think that dress retailed for $3000 and I paid about $1200. It arrived and was even the perfect length! Seriously, no alterations were needed! About a month later I had a revelation that even though I’d spent 1/3 of retail, I’d still shelled out over a grand for a dress I’d wear once… I couldn’t stomach it. I put it back up for sale and actually profited $300 on that gown! Side note: I ended up wearing my mom’s wedding dress 🙂  Also, check out local consignment/resale shops in your area, when I worked at the Junior League Wearhouse we got lots of donated gowns (even from bridal shops!) Look at bridesmaids dresses! Nearly every single bridesmaid gown comes in at least ivory, if not white too. This will still give you a little taste of that bridal boutique experience as well… you can make an appointment, play dress-up and spend a fraction of what the white gowns across the store cost.**Make sure you check out my Intimate Weddings pins for lots of dress options! Shop the mall! Probably the simplest solution… go to the mall! You can find dozens of white dresses just walking into the shops there. Places like Cache, White House Black Market, JCrew (online) and many others will offer you options. Tagging on #4, shop online! Lots of mainstream retailers are carrying bridal gowns online… check out urbanoutfitters.com modcloth.com and zara.com too! Rent. After-all you may only wear it once. Renttherunway.com has a great selection of beautiful gowns. Go non-traditional. Picking a color other than white or ivory will open thousands of options for you… blush is wildly popular right now… I’ve also seen some killer colored gowns floating around… don’t be afraid to do something different!!   The photo at the top is a dress I picked up on eBay for about $40… it was the perfect unique dress to shoot Michelle wearing at Richie Hill. It even caught the eye of the Trendy Bride blog and was featured over there! Be sure to check out more Intimate Wedding posts over HERE! And… if you’re looking to celebrate small (and budget friendly), make sure you check out my special rates on that page!
January 26, 2016

Bridal | Black & White

Sometimes in the dead of winter, in the dead of a wedding photographer’s season… you just need to get out and play! The lovely Katelyn modeled this KILLER Tory Burch gown I found (which is for sale if anyone’s interested!), Audry of Paper, Scissors, Beauty did Katelyn’s hair and makeup (yow!!! so pretty!!!) and Jenkins Rose provided the perfect, modern paper goods! These gals were wonderful to work with, and I’d highly recommend them for your day. The flowers cost me about $30 at Fresh Market and I tied them together with a scrap of black and white fabric from Ikea.
December 29, 2015

2015 Review!

2015 has lead us all over the map… Jamaica, Charleston, Wilmington, RDU, Bald Head Island, Highlands and the Bahamas…. cheers to an awesome year behind and a great year ahead!       Image by Catherine Marciniak     *Images of Lonesome Valley were shot for Michelle Lyerly