March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
Remember Jameson's 10 month session? His big sisters got to get in on the action just a few days later for their own sessions.... celebrating 7 years for Emma Rae and 5 for Anna Beth! Their porch and field next to their house added great texture to their session.
February 28, 2017
February 28, 2017
Last year, I met Sheri and Jeff at a styled shoot she had set up through her planning company, Love Always, Carolina. I was delighted to visit them after the birth of their son, Callen! His adorable fox themed nursery made for a wonderful backdrop! Callen was just over a month old here, so he's a little more alert than your typical newborn session :-) To see the entire gallery, click here.
February 21, 2017
February 21, 2017
First, thank you so much for all your kind words last week... it's surreal to have it out and public... part of me is so fearful that now something awful will happen... but I am trying to focus on the good.... and that I have no signs on anything wrong! On to today's topic... everyone's favorite word, budget. This is not a post telling you what you should or can expect to spend... let's get that straight. This is advice on allocating the budget you have to get the most from it... in my opinion. When we got married, I kept a running spreadsheet of what I had spent... and at the end, I couldn't believe how all the small items added up so fast... things that were so insignificant. Below is a list of certain items I think are necessities:
- Pretty decor
- Bridal party stuff
- Expensive hangers... you know the ones... for THEE dress shot. Seriously guys, I can find a non-hideous hanger, and a lot of times I keep one in my car! Don't waste precious dollars here if funds are limited. Expensive ($23.53 with shipping) vs. Grab one out of your coat closet ($0) or if you must spend on a prettier one.... Container Store ($7.99)
- Monogrammed cocktail napkins. Are they pretty? Yep. ($75) Are they any more useful than the 1040 pack from Costco? Nope. This can also apply to other linens... skip table runners (~$20ea), and chair covers ($1ea)
- Crazy bridal party gifts. The copious amount of robes, slippers, pajamas, etc. can blow a budget.... those Pretty Plum Sugar robes are adorable... but good God, if you have just 5 gals... you'll drop $340... and you know that won't be all you gift them. A common gift is a piece of jewelry to don on the big day... give a pair of pretty earrings with a heartfelt note, and call it a done.
- Cake toppers. Yes, they can be cute or pretty... you justify the price by calling it a "keepsake"... but it's just going to collect dust and be that thing you move 18 times and can't bring yourself to part with, so avoid the hassle and don't buy one to begin with. Have your florist provide some loose blooms to stick up there and be done with it. YOU'RE CUTTING IT TO PIECES AFTER-ALL. (~$50)
- Party favors. What is this, a six year olds birthday party? No one needs your goodie bag filled with.... candy (I'm guilty of this one), seeds, plants, cupcakes, popcorn, shot glass, etc. to take home to "remember your wedding" (~$3ea)
- Kid stuff. Again, I'm guilty of this. Reality is... it's not your job to entertain the kids that come to your wedding. As someone who's going to be a parent soon, I cannot imagine taking a child to a wedding. That seems like a horrible time for me, so I don't expect you to provide my kids toys, stations, special food, etc. to keep them happy. (~$10ea)
- Extra paper stuff. Besides an invitation (which I do still think should be on paper and sent snail mail) everything else is fluff. Table numbers, escort cards, guest books, save-the-date cards, fancy calligraphy envelopes, etc. are just not necessary. ($400)
- Transportation. We all manage to get ourselves from point A to point B every day... why is this day any different? Renting fancy limos, vintage cars, car service, trolleys, or buses can be convenient... and I do think in some cases are a safety feature if booze will flow heavily.... but isn't that what uber is for? ($600)
- A dress you feel pretty in
- A beautiful bridal bouquet (it will be in ALL your photos... so don't get a dinky one... skimp on bridesmaid bouquets or centerpieces instead)
- An outfit he looks great in
- A nice invitation (I did not say expensive)
- Floor length linens (seeing table legs is like seeing spanx!)... only exception is if you are doing some pretty wood tables or something.
- A venue with or adjacent to pretty outdoor space (even if you're not utilizing it for your ceremony or reception, you will take photos out there. It doesn't have to be huge, a pretty courtyard will do fine)
- Yummy food... which could be fried chicken for all I care... it's still yummy.
- A beverage. We served local, keg beer and cheap, tasty wine!
- Good music. A bad DJ can ruin a party... spend wisely, as your friends will remember "the party"... pllllleeeeeaaasssse don't put someone in charge of an iPod.
- A coordinator. Someone to wrangle vendors, light candles, refill your glass, and deal with the drama you don't know is happening.... is invaluable!